• Milk Glass & A Few Words On Wedding Design

    Posted on August 31st, 2010
    Naomi 8 comments

    This is a two part post. See end of the “Milk Glass” post for the second part.

    Milk glass is one of those vintage items that people either collect and display or have no idea what to do with it after collecting it. Lucky for you, I found a few images that might help you use grandma’s treasure trove (or your own) as a great addition to the decor at your country vintage inspired wedding.

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    Now For a Small FYI on Wedding Coordinators & Designers

    I have said before and I will say it again, a good wedding designer/coordinator must be able to design many different wedding themes and keep fresh with new ideas within the industry in order to service all types of brides. This holds true even if your wedding designer/coordinator’s personal style is city chic, polished preppy, or country comfy.

    A great wedding designer/coordinator can make most of your ideas a reality regardless if the design does not reflect her personal taste. A true artist can see the beauty in any design concept. That is the mark of a true design professional. If you read between the lines, you will understand why I used the Milk Glass post to give you my two cents. Remember, I am a planner, everything I do is intentional. {smile}.

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    • http://twitter.com/rosannatarsiero Rosanna Tarsiero

      Hi Naomi! We do disagree on something, finally :)

      My take on this topic is quite different, as I don’t believe in generalists, jack-of-all-trades, in that I think they might be “good” at everything but very good at almost nothing.

      I also think the wedding industry is – literally – clogged with generalists promising to be able to deliver “anything you want” but then delivering nothing really down to specs and this aspect is why we have such a hard time positioning our profession. We give the impression that we don’t really know much, aside from being great organizers who can handle emergencies and have an extensive network.

      We need to be bold, and reverse this nasty trend.

      I think we – like all professionals do – SHOULD niche. Niches allow prospects to really compare services and chose the one that really fits with their idea. Niches also allow wedding pros to be *really* educated on what they sell, as opposed to reading some opinionated expert version of the final “truth”. Doctors niche, laywers niche, CPAs niche, teachers niche. We shouldn’t because….?

      I’ll close my contribution with an example. If my heart had some problems, I wouldn’t go to a general physician, I would go to a cardiologist. That is, somebody who knows my problem in details, has a deep expertise in it (and is willing to refine it over and over) and can actually tell me something more than the standard “don’t worry we’ll sort it out”. If I am getting divorced, I don’t go to a real estate lawyer, I go to one who does ONLY divorces.

      Because I’m a bride advocate (being a bride to be myself), I hope that more and more brides, when needing – for example – an eco-chic wedding will go to a wedding designer with real deep knowledge of how to decorate with those kinds of materials, how to do the lighting in a way that minimally impacts on the environment, how to source lead-free mercury glass (and how to tell when it’s the wrong mercury glass!), and so on.

      Because somebody who does “any” wedding might have a very hard time to understand how to satisfy a niche.

    • http://twitter.com/LaVieLeGage Joyce Goeppinger

      Naomi,
      Considering the comment below, I understand her meaning. I, however have felt a true Wedding Planner does know a variety of ways to handle any situations. I believe a Wedding Planner can have a specialty, because we are human and have preferences! I happen to love Old World French and European style! The best of both I can offer my clients. If my knowledge is not sufficient, I will recommend another!
      In this business one should know how to bring out the best in any theme a bride would choose. A bride might just choose her planner based on personality alone.
      Bottom line, always the brides choice!
      Personally, I believe Naomi speaks for many designer/coordinators in our business. I happen to fall in that belief system as well.
      La Vie le Gage Couture Wedding Planning
      Colorado

    • http://twitter.com/LaVieLeGage Joyce Goeppinger

      Forgot to mention that I love the milk glass images. I too like bringing memories to life. Milk glass is a favorite to collect for many I have met. They too just love it and it may not reflect their decor’, but none the less they want it. Or it was an heirloom. Using this vintage prop in stylish new ways brings life anew to memories!
      Wonderful post Naomi!

    • http://twitter.com/rosannatarsiero Rosanna Tarsiero

      Hi Joyce,
      I would love if you use my name rather than calling me “her” – you know? It kind of feels better when one is referred to with her name lol

      Anyway.. I’m sure Naomi speaks for many planners and coordinators. However, not everybody aspires to conform to what “many” others do or think like “most” people… *especially* in a niche like the one the three of us have picked up (ie the discerning/upscale bride!).

      I am glad you and Naomi agree with one another, I’m happy you can make a solid argument for your convictions and I’m also happy you both have so many clients whose take is like yours. However, the number of persons who agree (or disagree) with us doesn’t say or imply much about how “on spot” a belief is :)

      Ok, I admit, coming from a background in science helps me arguing this point.

      I still don’t understand the resistance to having a niche. But I’m sure the industry will come around and change. Consultants have. Coaches have. Even nonprofits have. Wedding designers will too, eventually.

    • http://www.enchanteddreamweddings.com/blog Naomi

      Thank you for your comment and I respect your opinion. However, I beg to differ on a few points. Yes, lawyers, doctors, etc. have their niche. Agreed. However, I do not liken our profession to the medical field (sorry husband) or lawyers (sorry family). I do not find that those two professions are as creative as our profession. In the creative world, yes, we do have niches. However, as fickle the industry is and as quickly as trends come and go not having a comprehensive knowledge of these trends or what is new within our field, you will eventually position yourself out of the selection pool. I have seen it happen to many planners who only do a particular design or type of wedding. These wedding planners wonder why they are not attracting as much business as the rest of us.

      Let me further drive my point. If a wedding planner/ designer advertises that she only specializes in muti-cultural weddings do you thinks she knows about every culture or that she knows how to integrate different cultures to create a unique multi –cultural wedding? I would believe that you would agree that the latter part of the question is correct. Pigeonholing yourself into one specific design niche, in an industry that is ever changing, ever fickle may result in a planner/designer not being as booked or worst looked at as being outdated. Learning new trends and incorporating them into your business development is what keeps your business open (and creative mind alert) to clients that are looking for just that, fresh new ideas.

      I am not knocking niches. However, my niche is to a target audience not a targeted type of design. Not just for the bride who only wants shabby chic, old world vintage, etc., etc.Keep in mind the most current and knowledgeable wedding planner/designers are those who will continue to book brides long after the latest design fad has dimmed.

      Having a niche/target market, I wholeheartedly agree with having for obvious reasons. However, limiting myself to a niche design in our profession, in my opinion, is limiting. I do not have any aversion to a niche. I do have a niche but, again, it is not limited to design.

      Rosanna, my niche is not the discerning upscale bride (by the way I believe all brides are discerning!). If the upscale discerning bride happens to fall in my target niche, great but that is not the criterion that defines my niche or target bride.

      I speak for no one but myself. No one else. I am the owner of this blog, which certainly does not make my views the right one! :-) We all are entitled to our own opinions and I am glad you shared yours with me.

    • http://twitter.com/rubyandwillow Kate Holland

      I am going to keep my comment on a completely shallow level for now and just say that I adore the collection of milk glass you have going on here!! I’m not sure that we have this is NZ but if we did I’d certainly be using it liberally!!

    • http://twitter.com/realnutritioncg claire gallam

      I’m using milk glasses at my wedding. I love the cupcake in the glass. beautiful Naomi. You are so talented.

    • http://twitter.com/LaVieLeGage Joyce Goeppinger

      Rosanna, I do apologize for the pronoun “her”. I was speaking in a casual format, not a business format. No excuses, I really am sorry.
      I also want to say that Naomi nailed this discussion!
      I feel that I’m in research continuously to be on the edge of what is happeining. The bridal industry is indeed a niche all on it’s own. If I don’t stay on top of what is hot and getting brides attention or thinking of new ways to use old ways, I’m out! Little play on words, but my meaning is clear.
      Just being in Colorado is so different than being in California! I have to keep up my knowledge of the niche here! LOL Probably not many cowboy weddings in California!
      I enjoyed these posts today very much!
      La Vie le Gage Couture Events Wedding Planning
      Colorado

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